How to survive the LDR With Your Lover

Have you know what is LDR? Are you one of the one who is included in this category? This abbreviation was popular in many youth student who is usually study on long distance. Moreover, they are separated with their lover.LDR is short of  Long Distance Relationship. Yes, it means that you are running your relationship on long distance between you and your lover.

The purpose of this explaination is supposed to be know by all people about “how the long distance  relationship is”. It is also trying to resolve a problem in long distance relationship and how to walking on long distance relationship with your lover. I hope this will be of benefit to you.

Sometimes, This condition give us positif and negatif impact. For some people, it’s advantageous condition because LDR  make us more focus with our lecture.  Absolutly, LDR can economize our pocket money. With LDR, we can have more friends freely. We can hanging out with any friends without worried our lover. The seldom meeting frequency Make us more miss and lover. The last one we can try to make a new relationship with new one. But there is a badness from LDR. Beleave me, that sometimes the advantageous list  above will give you boomerang effect for example first when we get problem with our lover, it’ll devide your mind. It give impact to our study Automaticly. Second to make a harmonious relation you should keep communication. as a result,  you’ll spend more money for call or just send message or deliver any goods. Moreover, more friend will devide more attention. Then, Sometimes lie is important, to keep your lover ain’t jealious. The seldom meeting frequency can make us forget to people. Be worry with this one! If you are caught by yours, it means “you died”.

·         What did they say?

I have two example to be compared. This is my interview record. First person, just call him MS :

-          Do you get Long Distance relationship ? “Yes for sure.”

-          How long you have done it ? “about three year”

-          How to keep LDR on ?  “I think the key of relation is believe each other and keep communicate.” He said that he got a special time for calling his lover.

Second person, just call him SJK :

-          Do you get Long Distance relationship? ”yeah of course.”

-          How long you have done it ? “Since I graduated from High School”

-          How to keep LDR on ? “I am often call her. I sent many of  romantic poem. But sometimes I found bored.I felt bored when she was angry to me, I can just explain our to her just by sms, while it unable to call her”

·         Solution and Conclution :

1.    Communicate in some way every day, more than once if possible. You should keep comunicate with your girl friend in everyday eventhougt it just by sms or short call or e-mail.

2.    Pursue common interests. Try to chating something that can make her/him feel happy even make her/him laught each.   

3.    Avoid the temptation to be controlling. Give her/him space to moving. Do not to make too much limite. 

4.    Talk about your future together. Plan your future with your lover. What will you do in some month a head, or some year a head.

5.    Visit often. Spend your waste time to visit your lover. You can spend your holyday to try to visit her.

6.    Avoid jealousy and be trusting. One of the easiest ways to destroy a perfectly healthy relationship is to poison it with jealousy and drama.

7.    Give them a personal object of yours such as a dolls , accesories, etc. so in a time of need, when they miss you, he/she will huge your present even it can make he/she  remember you.

8.    Remember that you're still in a relationship. You HAVE to be there for your partner. If your partner is ever in trouble, or hurt, or whatever, you have to be there for them.